Memorial Day 2012

Rest In Peace, Robin…

Go with God – your work here is done…

Happy Birthday, Dad

My dad was a genius. He could fix nearly anything. He was funny, and told me my first dirty joke – I think I was 9. He played piano by ear and had a magnificently eclectic collection of records. He was also a loud-mouthed know-it-all son-of-a-bitch, who rebelled at Authority, and as a result quit more jobs than I’ve had in my life. He taught me to drive by hiring my friend to teach me to drive. He taught me how to take a punch – and to throw one.

He was 59 when he died.

Happy Birthday, Michael Henry Cassel. Hug Frosty and Tok for me. I miss you.

Advice for Becky

Oh, what an awful decision to have to make. Becky Petrino is possibly surprised to find herself in overwhelming pain, a pain that is shocking in its intensity, made even more so by the fact that she was blind-sided by the deceit.

I try my very best to not hate anything or anyone. This does NOT mean I like everyone, or that I’m Little Mary Sunshine spreading cheer and good will wherever I go. I’m not.

I’m SO cynical, especially when it comes to having expectations of others. People – even ‘nice’ people – are often scum if you put them in the right circumstances. People – even ‘nice’ people – will stab you in the back if they think they can get something from you that they want. And butter wouldn’t melt in their lyin’ mouths.

I hope Becky Petrino has a good friend or two. I want her to have a fulfilled and fulfilling life with her children, family and friends. I hope she can find it in her heart to forgive the betrayal that’s being splashed around as if there aren’t real hurting people involved. I’d like to tell her that it’s ok if she kinda wishes in her deepest heart that the Other Woman experiences nothing good from now till she dies. From what I hear, it’s not an uncommon thought for wives whose husbands find other ‘amusement’ with females who wouldn’t know real love if it bit ‘em on their fake tits.

I’d like to tell her that living well, being healthy and happy with those who love her – that is the BEST revenge.

Robin Gibb is in a coma…

…and it doesn’t look hopeful. May God grant strength and comfort to all his family, his friends, and his fans, worldwide.

UPDATE: Maybe he’s not ready to go!

Happy Valentine’s Day

Now go away.

 

 

 

Friday…I need some rest…and a painkiller.

I shopped for a few Christmas gifts this afternoon. Duffy left early – another 12 hour work day for him – and he rode the bike, so I could go spend some of his money. Thoughtful fellow… Anyway, I feel like I’ve been beaten with a stick! I got home, unloaded the truck, did up the dishes, fixed some leftover turkey & stuffing for supper (even though it was 8:30), and now I’m considering a handful of aspirin, a cup of tea, and going to bed early! I’m working for my one client in the morning, then Duffy will leave for the weekend when I get home (the part for the Dakota should be here by Tuesday). I got groceries this morning, so will have plenty to eat…while I do laundry, vacuum, and work in the yard. Still got those cabbages to get planted!

A good Friend of mine reminded me today of some more songs from my childhood. Enjoy!

And a couple from when I wasn’t a child…

Maybe I’ll get used to being low on the list of priorities…but it’s gonna take awhile.

Michael Henry Cassel (19May1932 – 11Nov1991)

Twenty years ago today, the first Veteran I ever knew died. I don’t guess I will ever stop missing him. I was recently told I have his smile and his laugh…and what I wouldn’t give to see his smile, and hear his laugh. He would adore his little blond great-granddaughter, too.

Via con Dios, Mike.

Rest in Peace, Uncle Charlie

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Charles F. Duffy
Evansville, IN
Charles F. Duffy, 82, of Evansville, passed away Friday, October 21, 2011, at St. Mary’s Medical Center. He was born August 8, 1929, in Buckskin, IN.
He attended Abundant Life Community Church. He retired from the U.S. Air Force after 21 years of service. He worked as the Director of Materials Management at St. Mary’s Medical Center, and retired after 25 years. He was President of the Snowbird Club in Destin, FL, and taught ballroom dancing with his wife for many years. He was an avid gardener; he walked daily, and enjoyed cooking for his family.
Charles was preceded in death by his brother, William Duffy; and his parents.
He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Clarice; daughters, Charlene Long (John) of Reston, VA, Cheryl Pleuss (Brian) of Newburgh; grandchildren, Lara, Matthew, Jared, Jessica; great grandchildren, Ethan, Chase, Alayna, Christian, Cohen, Charlie; sisters, Doris Halwes, Janice Cleveland; and brother, James Duffy.
Services will be 11:00 AM, Friday, October 28, 2011, at Alexander Newburgh Chapel, officiated by Rev. Kevin Kappler, with burial at Sunset Memorial Park. Friends may visit Thursday, from 4-8 PM at Alexander Newburgh Funeral Home.
Memorial contributions may be made to Abundant Life Community Church, 7333 Sharon Road, Newburgh, IN 47630.
Condolences may be made online atwww.AlexanderNewburghChapel.com.

Published in Courier Press on October 26, 2011

Uncle Charlie was Duffy’s dad’s younger brother. He met Aunt Clarice when he served in England during his time in the Air Force. They were an amazing couple. Just amazing. 

Never Forget…

They didn’t start with the Twin Towers…

October 23, 1983

 

October 12, 2000